Gut Health

About 70% of the population, now a days, is suffering from digestive issues and Ayurveda believes that almost all diseases are directly or indirectly related to disturbed digestion and once your metabolism is disturbed, the immune system of the body slows down, inviting many diseases in.

Many people come to us and talk about their digestive concerns such as:

  • Bloating                                    
  • Gas                                              
  • Constipation
  • Hyperacidity
  • Gastric Reflux
  • Diarrhoea
  • Weight gain
  • Low appetite

The root cause underlying these concerns is your digestive fire, which is affected by the imbalances of your body type (dosha).

As it is said that every person is different from another, and so is their digestion, some of us may be comfortable with cold water, whereas others feel sick with it. Some people need to eat food throughout the day, to stay active, whilst others feel lazy after eating. This all depends on your body type (dosha). Problems start when you are not able to recognise your constitution and you eat inappropriately for your body type. Your body does not accept this, resulting in the above-mentioned symptoms and further leading to chronic disorders. 

Ayurveda has answers to all gut health related questions. Ayurveda offers a complete solution to all problems related to digestion.

VATA: The digestive fire in a Vata body type is unpredictable. Sometimes it is good and the food you eat is easily digested but sometimes it can cause symptoms like bloating, gas, constipation, etc.

People eating more of the following foods tend to suffer from such concerns:

  • Cold food like salads, smoothies, popcorn
  • Uncooked food
  • Bitter, pungent, and astringent tastes
  • Cold water
  • Water directly after meals

PITTA: The digestive fire for Pitta body type is very strong and food is quickly digested. Hunger is not resistible in people with pitta body type. Pitta imbalance can cause diarrhoea, heart burn, and gastric reflux. 

People eating more of the following foods suffer from pitta type digestive problems:

  • Fried food
  • Excessively hot, spicy food including ginger, garlic, onion etc.
  • Sour taste (lime, lemon, orange, pineapple, berries)
  • Drinking less water
  • Fasting
  • Excessive alcohol

KAPHA: The digestive fire for kapha body type is very slow. It takes lot of time to digest you meals. Imbalance can cause sluggishness, lack of energy, weight gain, and low appetite.

People with the following eating habits are more prone to kapha type digestive problems:

  • Eating heavy meals
  • More of sweet, salty and sour tastes
  • Eating more often
  • Oily food
  • Dairy products
  • Excess proteins

Management

Eating according to your dosha (body type) and getting rid of the Ama (toxins) is the only solution to these problems.

VATA: Vata signifies cold, dry, light. In order to balance vata one should eat according to the following guidelines:

  • Food should be warm, cooked and heavy.
  • Sweet, salty and sour tastes should be added to meals.
  • Food should properly cooked, with oils or ghee.
  • Warm spices should be added.
  • One should restrict cold, raw, bitter, astringent, and spicy food.
  • Direct intake of water before or after meals should also be restricted.

PITTA: As qualities of Pitta resemble that of fire, one with pitta imbalance should:

  • Eat raw, heavy, cool foods. (These are good for pitta body type.)
  • Avoid spicy, salty, sour food.
  • Bitter, sweet and astringent tastes are good for pitta.
  • Avoid fasting and keep your stomach filled when you feel hungry.
  • Take cooling spices like: fennel, coriander, mint.

KAPHA: Kapha signifies cold and slow. So, the digestive fire of a kapha body type is very slow and takes time to digest food. Kapha type digestive fire can be maintained by:

  • Warm, dry, and light meals.
  • Eating only when you feel hungry.
  • Drinking ginger, a few lemon drops, and rock salt. (Helps to boost digestive fire.)
  • Avoiding dairy products.
  • Avoiding sweet, sour and salty tastes.
  • Including bitter, astringent, and pungent tastes. (These are good to have.)

PERFECT TIME TO EAT:

  • It is very important to eat your meals (breakfast, lunch, dinner) nearly at the same time every day.
  • Eat only when you feel hungry.
  • Lunch should always be between 12-2 pm as at this time the digestive fire is very strong.
  • Dinner should always be before 8 pm or 3 hours before you sleep.
  • Always eat in a settled environment by concentrating only on eating.
  • APPETISER DRINK: In order to increase your appetite one can have an appetiser drink. Add 2-3 spoons of plain yoghurt in a glass of water. Add a pinch of cumin powder and salt to it. Stir it well. This is a healthy drink to increase your appetite & is highly recommended in summer.

Written by Doctor Rajneesh

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Try a 3 Day Ayurveda Detox

TRY A 3 DAY DETOX

Toxins may build up in both body and mind as a result of wrong food combinations, over-indulgence in heavy foods and poor lifestyle habits. Toxins can also accumulate from the air we breath, the water we drink, and emotional toxins can build up from thought patterns, stress or painful experiences we haven’t fully digested.

Ayurveda recommends detoxing on a regular basis to eliminate toxins and return to our natural state of health and wellbeing. A 3 day detox is easy to manage at home, and has great benefits, awakening your body’s capacity for self-renewal and self-regulation. Ideally, set aside 3 days when you won’t be working so that you have time to rest and rejuvenate. For example, you can commit to beginning your detox on Saturday morning and completing it Monday evening.

During your detox, eat a simplified diet to allow your body to release any accumulated toxins. Eat fresh, seasonal vegetables, which are low in calories, easy to digest and assist a detox.

Foods that Support Detoxification are easy to digest foods: Lentil soup, Kitchari (see recipe next blog), Light vegetable soups, Steamed or sautéed broccoli, carrots, zucchini, asparagus, brussels sprouts, cabbage, and beets, lightly steamed greens such as spinach, chard, and beet greens, Basmati rice, quinoa, millet, and barley, Spices such as ginger, cumin, coriander, and fennel, Flaxseeds, sesame seeds, sunflower seeds, and pumpkin seeds, Poached apples and pears; cooked apricots, prunes, and figs, Fresh berries; raspberries, blackberries, blueberries.

Foods to Reduce or Eliminate: Animal and dairy products (ghee in small amounts), Refined sugar and flour products, canned, leftover, processed and microwaved foods, fermented foods, including pickles and vinegar, cold and raw foods, fried foods, alcohol, caffeine, chocolate.

Digestion is strongest when the sun is brightest at midday, so eat your largest meal then and have a small, light dinner, such as vegetable soup. Include the six tastes (sweet, salty, sour, pungent, bitter, astringent) in every meal so that you are eating balanced, satisfying meals. When you incorporate all six tastes, you get all the nutrients your body needs and decrease cravings for unhealthy food. Drink fresh, pure water and ginger tea. Give yourself daily self-massage, sweat out toxins, turn off electronics and nourish yourself with meditation and light yoga, and have a have a daily routine:


Morning:

  • Meditate
  • Gentle stretching or yoga
  • Self-massage
  • Warm breakfast; ginger tea with cooked cereal or grains with almond milk


Afternoon:

  • Main meal at lunch
  • Have a 10-15-minute walk after lunch to aid digestion
  • Do exercise that helps you to sweat or have a sauna
  • Meditate


Evening:

  • Light dinner
  • Short walk
  • Read something inspirational
  • Warm bath
  • Write or draw in journal
  • Bed by 10 p.m.

 

RECIPE FOR KITCHARI

The consistency of this rice and legume dish should be soft, like porridge. Kitcharis are Ayurveda’s cleansing therapy and the core of Ayurvedic nutritional healing because of their ease of digestion and assimilation, and their ability to rid the body of undigested waste (ama). They are suitable for all doshas and can be varied according to the effect required, which depends on the spices and vegetables used.

Ingredients:

  • 1 cup uncooked split mung beans
  • ½ cup uncooked white basmati rice (rinse with water until water runs clear)
  • 1 tablespoon of ghee (can use sesame oil or coconut oil)
  • 1 tablespoon freshly grated ginger root or 1 teaspoon dried ginger
  • 2 bay leaves
  • 1 teaspoon each of black mustard seeds, cumin, and turmeric powder
  • Optional: ½ teaspoon each coriander powder, fennel and fenugreek seeds
  • Optional: 1 pinch hing (asafoetida)
  • 6 cups water
  • ½ teaspoon salt (Himalayan pink salt is best)
  • Optional: 1 small handful fresh chopped coriander leaves


Method:

Rinse the mung beans until the water runs clear, then bring mung beans to boil in 4 cups of water and turn off. Let them sit for 1 to 2 hours in the boiled water, then drain and rinse.

Heat a large pot on low heat and add ghee or sesame oil, followed by all the spices (except bay leaves) and cook for a few minutes, stirring constantly. This roasting enhances the flavor but make sure they don’t burn. Add mung beans and rice and stir again.

Add water and bay leaves, increase the heat and bring to boil. Boil for 10 minutes. Turn heat to low, cover and cook until mung beans and rice become soft (about 30 to 40 minutes).

Add cilantro leaves as a garnish just before serving, if desired. Add salt to taste.

 

RECIPE FOR GINGER TEA

Ginger tea helps to purify the body and boosts the digestive system.

Ingredients:

  • Unpeeled ginger root
  • Hot water
  • Raw organic honey (optional)
  • Chopped mint (optional)
  • Lemon slices (optional)


Method:

To make one cup of tea, put 1 heaped teaspoon of chopped unpeeled ginger root into 1 cup of hot water. Let the tea steep for 2 minutes. Strain or allow ginger settle to the bottom. Drink.

Alternatively place chopped ginger in a saucepan with required amount of water, bring to boil, reduce heat and simmer for 5-10 minutes. Strain and place in a thermos for drinking throughout the day. You can sweeten the tea with a little organic honey or chopped mint or lemon slices (optional).

Are you experiencing a niggle in the knee?

Are you experiencing a niggle in the knee?

The start of a new month or a new phase of our lives can be enough to invigorate and renew our exercise / activity goals.  Often the body can be quick to dampen our enthusiasm with aches and niggles that creep in and side swipe us out of seemingly nowhere.

So, what is a niggle in the knee, and should I do something about it?

A niggle in the knee (otherwise referred to as Patellofemoral pain syndrome) can manifest itself as you increase your activity levels – whether it’s the intensity, length, or regularity, trying out something new (including new sneakers) or getting back to your usual activity after a period of rest. Your kneecap (patella) is not tracking nice and evenly across the joint as you’re running / cycling / climbing that hill or stairs, or perhaps stuck in your office chair all day, which unleashes a world of pain as several things go awry.

Symptoms include:

  • Aching pain of the knee joint
  • Tenderness, sometimes accompanied by swelling at the front of the knee
  • Pain is often worse on movement, specifically when walking / running up or down hill or stairs, squatting, or when sitting for long periods

 

If you’re experiencing any of these symptoms, then it’s your body’s way of asking for help.

“The purpose of pain is to move us into action; it is not to make us suffer.” – Tony Robbins

How can Remedial Massage and Sports Therapy help?

Myofascial release and exercise therapy prescriptions have been proven to improve patellofemoral pain syndrome. [1]

Following a simple protocol of assessments, including some orthopaedic tests to help locate the structures affected, we can work out an appropriate treatment plan. This might involve hands-on myofascial release and other soft tissue techniques, as well as taping or dry needling if needed, and a robust, simple at-home exercise plan. With these tools, we can work together to kick those symptoms and get you back on track!

[1] https://www.ijcrr.com/article_html.php?did=2668&issueno=0

Written by Jenny Ossa, Remedial Massage Therapist

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Ayurvedic Guide to Eating Out

AYURVEDA: Ayurvedic Advice for Eating Out

It is fun and enjoyable to eat out with friends, but restaurant food is often designed to entice and stimulate the taste buds rather than support long term health goals. At restaurants, food usually has to appeal to a broad range of individuals and may not support your unique constitution. Sometimes as a result we may experience gas, bloating, heartburn, sometimes constipation, sleep disruption and a little weight gain or puffiness from the excess use of salt.

However we can still make some right choices when eating out and maintain our Ayurvedic eating principles. If you can, have your meal at lunch time, or in the early evening, followed by an evening walk to help you digest the food. Your body is better able to digest food earlier in the day, process toxins and burn off any excess calories.

Choose a healthy restaurant, if you can, that is known for freshly prepared, seasonal, local food. Eat lightly and simply in the meals both before and after your restaurant meal and don’t let yourself get too hungry before you eat out. At the restaurant, eat a responsible portion of food and order vegetable side dishes or incorporate a salad. The roughage of the salad helps elimination, the bitter taste increases bile production and flushes the gall bladder, helping you digest heavy fats, and the sour taste of vinegar in the salad dressing helps in fat metabolism by stimulating bile production. Chew your food well, as saliva has digestive enzymes. Order hot water with lemon as it cultivates digestive fire and the sour taste of lemon improves digestion. Don’t drink ice water, cold or carbonated drinks as they extinguish digestive fire, disrupting the digestive process. Favour simpler foods with fewer ingredients that are easier to digest, and avoid the complimentary bread and butter. Minimise cream sauces, excessive cheese, carbs, fried food and too much salt especially if you are trying to lose weight. Black pepper and ginger will help digestion, as will the parsley garnish.

It’s also important to focus on being thankful for the food provided and enjoy the quality time spent with your loved ones and friends, have fun, laugh a lot and don’t worry excessively about the food. Food is an important way to build relationships, and having friends and socialising is also excellent for your health and happiness, so enjoy it!

The Power of Reiki

THE POWER OF REIKI

Reiki is a natural and simple healing method that allows you to absorb more life force energy. The Reiki method vitalises your life force and balances the energies in your body. This natural healing energy flows in a powerful and concentrated form through the hands of the Reiki Therapist. In “laying on” of the hands directs the healing energy into the body of the receiver.

The Reiki Therapist is used as a channel to conduct the Universal Life Energy. As a result the therapist is simultaneously charged and strengthened, not at all being drained of the therapists personal energy.

Reiki energy is regarded, as life force energy at it’s most effective. With maximum vibration it is considered to have an almost divine quality and as such includes everything, in a world where problems and disorders are deemed to be due to the feeling of detachment from the world.

Reiki used regularly can promote a more joyful life and lively feelings in the receiver, energy enhancement, peace and calm and existing conflicts within a person are broken down, producing clarity and greater vitality. An improved renewal of the natural processes within the body and removal of toxins are also enhanced and rendered more effective. Energy blockages are removed allowing flow of life force energy throughout the body. As toxins and other waste products are removed from the body’s vital processes, body organs and functions become more highly tuned. When the body takes in more and more life energy, it is said that its frequency becomes higher, facilitating contact with the Universal Spirit and generating trust in the universal life force energy.

Reiki also gives you courage to change the things in your life that you would like to change. Reiki gives you more power and the energy to act and think more responsibly in your life. It will speed up your physical, mental and emotional healing and also increase your spiritual growth.

This ancient art developed in the nineteenth century in Japan is as ever useful now in our more complex and busy world as it was in the time of its conception.

There is no right or wrong way to use Reiki. Reiki can do no wrong, it is beyond this. The Reiki energy has no conditions, or right or wrongs with it. If you become confused with all the conflicting information about Reiki, remember one thing, it is our humanness that is confusing and conflicting, not the energy, the energy just is, it is pure, knows no competition, no comparison and love all equally.


Just for today,

Do no worry

Just for today,
No not anger

Just for today,
Earn your living honestly

Just for today,
Count your blessings

Just for today,
Be kind to all living things

The Daily Routine of Ayurveda

DINACHARYA (SANSKRIT: दिनचर्या “DAILY-ROUTINE”) is a concept in Ayurveda that looks at the cycles of nature and bases daily activities around these cycles. In Sanskrit, the word ‘din’ means day or daily and ‘charya’ can mean activity, behaviour, conduct, practice, performance, custom or routine. Embodied in the word, dinacharya, ‘acharya’ refers to following the inherent wisdom of nature by being close to the natural cycles of the day.

In Ayurveda, the activities of dinacharya are synchronized with the natural daily cycle of the sun and performed on a regular basis, because it is believed that daily routine can bring about radical change in the body, mind and consciousness. Routine helps to establish balance in your individual constitution, it regulates your biological clock, helps with digestion, absorption, assimilation and elimination, and it generates self-esteem, discipline, a peaceful mind, happiness and longevity. As human beings we are naturally a part of nature, and need to be in tune with the rhythms of nature so that we become closer to our true selves.

The sequences of dinacharya are daily activities that are performed at optimal times of the day, dominated by the energies of Vata, Pitta and Kapha doshas. The heavy and stabilizing qualities of Kapha affect us between 6-10 in the morning and evening, the dynamic and transforming attributes of Pitta affect us between 10–2 during mid-day and mid-night. The light and inspiring potential of Vata has affect on us between 2–6 in the evening and morning. In Ayurveda’s dinacharya we make small and gradual changes to establish a routine that is suited to our unique doshic nature, and because this is done everyday it has an accumulative and lasting effect.

There are routines around waking and sleeping, cleansing and eliminating, practices for body, mind and spirit, practices for eating, work, creative play and relaxing activities, which are created to suit your individual needs and dosha or constitutional type. These routines are easy to introduce into your daily life and can make a huge difference to your health and wellbeing.

The Magic of Mindfulness

WHAT IS MINDFULNESS?

Mindfulness is a practice that has been explored by the worlds meditative and wisdom traditions as well as various Western sciences, including medicine and psychology. It is a universal tool for cultivating self-understanding and healing and is not dependent on any particular belief system or ideology.

Jon Kabat-Zinn defines mindfulness as “paying attention in a particular way: on purpose, in the present moment, and non-judgmentally”.

The Chinese character for Mindfulness means, “heart presence”.


HOW WILL IT HELP ME?

Benefits of practicing mindfulness include:

  • Mental clarity, focus, and improved concentration.
  • Increased self-awareness and emotional intelligence, assisting us to relate to others and one’s self with kindness, acceptance and compassion.
  • Greater confidence in our ability to know, understand and act on our own inner wisdom.
  • Improved physical health via relief of stress; lowering blood pressure, reducing chronic pain, improving sleep and alleviating gastrointestinal difficulties.

Mindfulness Coaching sessions at Aspects of Healing involve learning about the mind both theoretically through practical Yoga psychology, and experientially through a range of simple mindfulness practices. Mindfulness coaching allows you to find personal ways to practically bring the art of mindfulness into everyday life, moment to moment.

“Knowledge does not mean mastering a great quantity of different information, but understanding the nature of mind. This knowledge can penetrate each one of our thoughts and illuminate each one of our perceptions.”  Matthieu Ricard

Trusting the Body: Kalarippayat

TRUSTING THE BODY – KALARIPPAYAT 

Kalarippayat is an ancient Indian martial and healing art-form that evolved alongside Yoga and Ayurveda and shares elements of both.

The tradition aims to bring peace to worldly conflict – inner and outer. Both Kalari practice and treatments holistically develop an individual; beginning from physical health, mental balance and progressing to the unification of the mind, body and spirit.

Kalarippayat is still relatively unknown because the British banned the practice whilst occupying India. However, Kalari continued as it had for thousands of years as a closed oral tradition. It is now re-emerging around the world as people are re-discovering the benefits of this ancient science.

Kalari treatments follow the fundamental principles of Ayurveda, but are also influenced by Siddha medicine and other regional Indigenous knowledge systems of India. Like Chinese and Tibetan medicines, Ayurveda and Kalari view a human being as a microcosm of the natural world. Treatments work on curing the root cause and not the symptoms of an imbalance. Therapists assist the body to return to a state of balance so that it can ultimately heal itself.

What distinguishes the Kalari therapist’s medical expertise from that of other specialists is their psychophysiological training as a martial artist. Before a practitioner can begin their studies in the healing arts they must spend several years in intensive physical and meditational training. This gives the practitioner extraordinary control over their body and mind and thus control of the vital energy or wind (prana vayu). The efficacy of treatment is based on this ability to control and channel prana (energy) while giving treatments.

Being tantric in origin, Kalari places great trust in the wisdom of the body to heal itself when given the chance;

“Slowly you renew yourself, you are regenerating yourself. If you can have this generation of energy, that is the real meaning. That you can generate energy from your body, you begin to become radiant. You are conscious of the flow of blood, the flow of breath, the taste of water and the feel of air after movement. Your whole body is vibrant. The body can be reclaimed as a source of energy and strength.” Chandralekha

Prana Chikitsa – Energy Treatment 
Kalari Uzichil – Kalari Physiotherapy 

What is the best diet for me?

CONSTITUTIONAL DIET

Is your body absorbing required nutrients from your diet?

It is important you look at, how your body absorb and assimilate the nutrients, even if you take the healthy organic diet. Some of my clients used to tell me their experience that they don’t feel enough energy even after taking ‘huge’ plate of meal. On the other side, some clients complains that they feel heavy and puffy even if they drink water.  They also complaints that they find it hard to lose body weight. Yes, one of our biggest problem is overweight and feeling of heaviness and this can be corrected only by changing to a better diet and lifestyle and  unfortunately no other shortcuts.

Here is the importance of Ayurveda practice in daily life.   Ayurveda is an ancient natural system of body healing. The word meaning of Ayurveda is knowledge for long life. Ancient teachers of Ayurveda throughout explains in their writings, the long life is depending on health which required proper diet.

What is your life expectancy?

Have you ever thought about why our life is complicated and shortened even though our science and technology developed well enough? It is interesting that the lifespan and health of rural people in several developing states are better than many of ours. When we look into the reasons, we will find out that they are giving primary importance to their own health and everything else is secondary. Sadly we often forget our personal health because we are ‘busy’L.

Ayurveda proclaims that dietary requirements for each person is different. The unique personal constitution, physiological and emotional aspects needs to be considered for defining what nutrients we actually needed. Six dietary nutrients explaining in Ayurveda. They are Sweet like carbs & protein, Acidic like tomato, Alkaline – Salts, Hot– Spices, Bitter– greens and Astringent – teas. 

It is very common that clients tell me that they have cravings. Have you ever felt ‘Craving for Sugar’? Have you ever thought that when this is happening and why this is happening?  Yes, our mind need ‘heaviness’ of sweet taste when it became overly light and anxious. But this same heaviness can cause overweight if the tendencies are not corrected on time.    Learning the characteristics of our own body and each ingredients in our diet helps to identify what our body really need!!

Our body always balance by changing our tendencies to opposites of its own characteristics. In this way we need heavier food when the body is light, cold when we are hot, and oil when we are dry.

Sweet is not only sugar or carbs in Ayurveda, it also includes fats and animal protein too. Sweet taste increases the heaviness and oiliness in our body. This easily reduces the hunger and good source of energy and this is why in all part of the world our bigger portion of meal is sweet.   

Sour is acidic, which create the warmth in our body. But over use of savoury, makes our systems hyper acidic which later on causes inflammation.  Increased acidity of the blood is one of the reasons for reduced immunity and increases the chances of cancer.  

Salts makes you thirsty and include minerals and alkalis. It makes your food tastier and enjoyable. Over use of salts can adversely affect the blood pressure and functions of heart, liver and kidney health.

I love Spices like many of you. They are hot and makes my digestion easy. But over use of spices can create heat within the body and digestive health problems later. So I sauté spices in ghee or in oil and reduce the potency of spices before I use them in my curries!

Vegetables when they are raw, mostly Bitter in taste. Now a days we train our kids to eat more green than anything else which helps to reduce their heaviness and make them more active. But uncooked green vegies makes the process of digestion difficult and this causes the stomach bloated.  Due to this reason Ayurveda recommends stir-fries, for lighter Vata constitution

If this is the case what is the best diet for me? Ayurveda doesn’t force us to follow any particular diet but your constitutional diet. Only you know youself better than anyone else. So learn your body type and follow a constitutional diet. 

Dr Bosco Paul
Ayurvedic Doctor 

Founder’s Welcome

WELCOME TO OUR BLOG

Often times we look for answers outside of ourselves when they really reside on the inside.  In our blogs, we want to bring you ‘gems’ of inestimable value that will help you find who you are and live a healthy, peaceful and happy life.  We will look at how to nurture our mental, physical and spiritual aspects of ourselves.  Remember, we are spiritual beings having a human experience.  First health comes from the inside before it manifests on the outside.

This is one of my favourite articles about LOVE for surely LOVE is the secret we are all looking for to plant in our hearts to begin our journey to wellness.

Katina Jones

 

The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran  

Then said Almitra, “Speak to us of Love.” 
And he raised his head and looked upon the people, and there fell a stillness upon them. And with a great voice he said: 
When love beckons to you follow him, 
Though his ways are hard and steep. 
And when his wings enfold you yield to him, 
Though the sword hidden among his opinions may wound you. 
And when he speaks to you believe in him, 
Though his voice may shatter your dreams as the north wind lays waste the garden. 
For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you. Even as he is for your growth so is he for your pruning. 
Even as he ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest branches that quiver in the sun, 
So shall he descend to your roots and shake them in their clinging to the earth. 
Like sheaves of corn he gathers you unto himself. 
He threshes you to make you naked. 
He sifts you to free you from your husks. 
He grinds you to whiteness. 
He kneads you until you are pliant; 
And then he assigns you to his sacred fire, that you may become sacred bread for God’s sacred feast. 
All these things shall love do unto you that you may know the secrets of your heart, and in that knowledge become a fragment of Life’s heart. 
But if in your fear you would seek only love’s peace and love’s pleasure, 
Then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love’s threshing-floor, 
Into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears. 
Love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from itself. 
Love possesses not nor would it be possessed; 
For love is sufficient unto love. 
When you love you should not say, “God is in my heart,” but rather, I am in the heart of God.” 
And think not you can direct the course of love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course. 
Love has no other desire but to fulfil itself. 
But if you love and must needs have desires, let these be your desires: 
To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night. 
To know the pain of too much tenderness. 
To be wounded by your own understanding of love; 
And to bleed willingly and joyfully. 
To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving; 
To rest at the noon hour and meditate love’s ecstasy; 
To return home at eventide with gratitude; 
And then to sleep with a prayer for the beloved in your heart and a song of praise upon your lips.